Landmark Forum

Couple weeks ago, I got invited by one of my friend to an Introduction to Landmark Forum. It defintely had alot of nuggets. But one thing that made a huge impact is

“How you handle situations today is not due to your past, but how you see your future.”

For example you will be going to Hawaii to all-inclusive vacation tommorow , and there is a huge argument in the office. Everyone is stressed. Are you? NOOOOO! You are not stressed, becuase you know, TOMMOROW,  you will be drinking your Margarita tommorrow at the beach while tanning….

While you are in Hawaii, while yopu are drinking your margaritta, suddenly a paper fall down from your bag and reminded you that you will be  back in the office in two days. How is your mood now? BADDDDD…

This is a great nugget because if you can actively realize why you react to this is related with how you believe the future will be, you can overcome your fears or blocks that keeping you doing things or achieving your goals.